Amber Ray has caused a stir online with her latest pointed post. In the post, the mother of one complained that she was tired of building up her romantic partners and wanted a man who was already at the pinnacle.

Using her Instagram page, she wrote,

"I'm at a place where I do not want to build up my next partner. it's draining. I've done it. I've tried to be that ride or die, but it's such an energy imbalance. I'm tired. I want someone who is already emotionally available, emotionally expressive, and financially stable, that's it."

What is interesting about Amber's statement is that it doesn't go hand in hand with the realities on the ground.

She has never been in a long-term relationship with a project( The type she bemoans in her post above) 

In fact, Amber's preferred man is one who is already established financially and family-wise. Just look at her most popular relationships.

In the first case, she was the second wife of wealthy Kisii businessman, Zaheer Jhanda, before the two split up after his first wife raised a storm.

Her second significant relationship was to moneyed Somali businessman, Jimal Rohosafi, before that marriage also went down in flames after Amber and his first wife couldn't get along.

So, I do wonder? Who is she really talking about? Which man is this that she has been a ride or die for? 

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