9. LONG DISTANCE
Distance exposes you both to potential temptation as it robs you face to face interaction which grows intimacy.
If you lack self-discipline, you might fall for someone physically close to you to take the place of the one who is far from you.
If you are in a long-distance relationship/marriage, use technology to communicate often, and be accountable to each other about where you are and with who.
You should ensure to work on ending the season of being far from each other soon.
10. CAREER
Some careers will put you in intimacy-charged environments or cause you to travel a lot and if you are weak, you will have intimate encounters with others.
11. REVENGE
Some people become unfaithful because their spouse was/is unfaithful. You might think that you are punishing your spouse but you are stooping low as you abandon your principles.
Just because you are hurt doesn't mean you go out of character. Don't let your spouse's mistakes make you become who you are not
12. REPEATING THE SAME ROUTINE
When you do something over and over at some point you will get bored. Find something fun to do as a couple like playing games eg monopoly.
You can also go for road trips visit new restaurants once in a while etc. Don't just reduce yourself to doing chores and paying bills.
13. IDENTITY CRISIS
If you have low self-esteem and doubt yourself, it is easy to use your desirability to give you a confidence boost.
As a man, you will find yourself pursuing multiple women to have intimacy with them just to prove you can.
As a woman, you will find yourself entertaining men, flirting with them, and having intercourse with them to see if truly you are beautiful.
Find yourself and love yourself. When you are lost, you will hurt those around you, especially your spouse
14. PORNOGRAPHY
Once your mind gets used to desiring images and videos of porn stars, soon, your mind will want real intimacy with others as you have trained it to desire more than your spouse.
Teach your mind to focus on your spouse alone. Stop allowing porn to distract you
15. FALSE ACCUSATIONS
Some people get so disappointed that their spouse accuses them of cheating so they go on to cheat to prove their spouse right.
This solves nothing but compounds problems in marriage. If you know you are innocent, assure your spouse to help deal with his/her fears and insecurities.
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