•Insecurity comes from past experiences that are not dealt with professionally by an expert.

•They can’t stand that someone is doing better than them in life; they always have negative things to say to people.

A man and a woman in a photo
Insecure A man and a woman in a photo
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An insecure man is the worst kind of man you will ever meet, they are full of themselves and think the world revolves around them.

Dating a man who is insecure can be derailing to the woman since they project all their fears and issues to their partner.

Insecurity comes from past experiences that are not dealt with professionally by an expert.

For men insecurity can be due to financial instability, sexual prowess and physical appearance.

There are signs that show when a man is insecure, below are points of one;

Hates your achievements

An insecure man is not happy to see their partner win in life either in their career, education or financially.

A secure man would be happy to see his woman make it in life; and view it as team work, be happy for her since they will both win.

A relationship with a man who does not appreciate their partner ends up being suffocating,as you

can’t be open with your man about your life achievements.

They are controlling

When a man wants to control all your moves from who you hang with and how you spend your money is definitely insecure.

A woman screaming
controlling A woman screaming
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A man who is controlling is jealous of you, men tend to be jealous by nature but when it gets to a point that they want to manage your life that’s where they cross the line.

When in a relationship one should be allowed to be free to do whatever they want and make their own decision.

Sometimes women don’t know better and they end up dating men who are devious.

Always right

An insecure man always wants to prove a point even when wrong they don’t admit.

They always want to be powerful and have strong opinions; when having a discussion may seem as an argument with them as they are mentally draining.

Humans are not perfect and sometimes we are wrong but for this guys that’s not on their book.

They are bullies

Insecure men try to belittle everyone around them from his friends, family members and even his partner.

A woman sobbing
Bully A woman sobbing
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They can’t stand that someone is doing better than them in life; they always have negative things to say to people.

They never appreciate people’s effort and they tend to think they are better than everyone else.

They are gas lighters

Do you know that feeling when someone is always making things worse just to make themselves fee better! Well that’s how insecure guys are.

They’d rather make you feel miserable than accept its their fault that things are not working out for them.

Secure men are warm and calming if they have anything to say they do it calmly and thoughtful for your own feelings.

Women should try to find better people to spend their lives with and leave insecure men by themselves or seek professional help.

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