Content Creator Victor Peace has shared the predicament he found himself in after his marriage of seven years ended.

Victor says he learned the hard way what situations are and how to navigate them.

Through his Tiktok Victor narrated

"I got married at 24. Before that, I had only dated one other person seriously.

Getting out of marriage seven years later was crazy coming back to the streets.

Back in the day if you liked someone you either invited them for lunch or ice cream if you didn't have enough cash for lunch."

He was not ready for what the dating scene had to offer

"What shocked me is situationships because back in the day they were not there.

That was wild for me.

We should have a workshop for people who are coming out of marriage to help them with this transition."

Victor went on to add that he is not advocating for people to be in situations.

'Immediately after the marriage, I had this energy in me that I wanted to prove my worth to the world.

I now understand why situation ships are important.

My aim at that time was not to date anyone.

I started attracting people who were emotionally unavailable like I was and this was perfect for me.

I knew there was no end goal to it, and I also felt safe as we would negotiate any form of exclusivity.

The problem is one person catches feelings."

His advice to anyone who has just left a marriage or a long-term relationship?

"Do not make rush permanent decisions. "

Has he healed?

"One year after the breakup and as I was sitting to be served a wave of emotion came and slapped me and I started breaking down.

I ran out of the banking hall and stood outside the hospital and it hit me that you might think you have made progress but you haven't.

Healing is not linear."

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