Motivational speaker Sam West has some life-saving advise for anyone getting into a relationship with a child.
In the African setting, some people have a preference as to what gender a child should be when they are getting into the dating scene.
In an exclusive interview with Mpasho, Sam says speaking from his own experience introducing the person you are dating to your child should be a gradual process.
Sam is a father of one, He takes care of his son himself.
"Do not rush to introduce a child to a person you are dating. Wait until the relationship is solid and you are sure you will [pursue a relationship with this person.
If you must, do not introduce them as a lover introduce them as a friend first and see how they relate.
To avoid affecting a child's psychological well-being, Introduce your partner gradually."
Sam says with time one will be able to find out if their partner is faking it or not.
"You cannot fake it forever with time you will know if someone is genuine.
If there is no connection you will see."
He was also of the opinion that one should inform the person they intend to date that they have a child on the first date.
"If you are getting into a relationship and you have a child, let the person know on the first date,
Do not hide it.
Let the person know that you come as a package. If they want you with a child well and good if not it's still ok.
They should love you and the person you are with. If the person still wants to pursue you they will."
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