• Sam West says most young ladies dating older men lack a father figure.
• Most of these girls want to fill a gap that was never filled by their absent dads.
Motivational Speaker Sam West has asked fathers to be present in their daughters' lives to prevent them from seeking solace in older men.
Sam says most young girls nowadays want to date wababa who will in return spoil them with gifts in exchange for sex.
According to Sam most young girls dating 'wababa' lack father figures.
"We researched further and discovered that almost all the girls in such relationships lacked a father figure in their life.
They are either raised by a single mum, have an absent father, or a present but absent father."
Sam says most of these girls fall for the trap because these men offer them things they cannot resist. Money, attention, and affection.
"In the search for a father figure, the girls strike up a relationship with any man who showcases signs of being interested in her and what she believes in.
The men unknowingly think the girls are head over heels in love vat them.
Kumbe they are just looking for a father figure.
There are some special cases where some have great present fathers that they admire and get attracted to people with similar traits to those of their dads."
Below are some reaction comments from Kenyans.
A majority agreed with Sam adding that it's time for parents to be present in the lives of their kids.