Piece by: MERCY MURIITHI

12 February 2024

•Being single on Valentine's Day isn't a crime, it isn't a verdict of loneliness either, nor is it a reason to do something you might regret later on. it's an opportunity to celebrate love in its many forms, starting with self-love.

When everyone around you is busy showing love to their favorite someone on Valentine's Day it's easy to feel a bit left out if you're flying solo.

But hey being single on Valentine's Day isn't a crime, nor is it a reason to do something you might regret later on. Before you decide to pull a stunt to fill the void let's talk about things you shouldn't do because of this day and what you should instead do.

Don't call your ex no matter how tempting it might be to rekindle an old flame or seek comfort in familiar territory resist the urge to call your ex.

Valentine's Day can exaggerate feelings of loneliness, but reopening closed chapters is rarely the answer instead focus on loving yourself and look forward to the opportunities tomorrow might bring.

Being single Valentine's Day isn't a verdict of loneliness, it's an opportunity to celebrate love in its many forms, starting with self-love.

Don't seek validation from others this is self-destructive behavior, though tempting don't do it.

Rather than these destructive traits you can:

either treat yourself to a spa day.
indulge in your favorite movies or binge-watch a new series,
you could also indulge in your favorite meal show love to yourself, and
do things that make you happy.

It is important to prioritize your well-being and happiness instead of engaging in toxic, self-destructing behaviors, focus on self-care, connect with maternal and platonic loves, and embrace your independence.

You deserve healthy and fulfilling relationships so do not settle for toxic alternatives just cause it's lover's season and you're feeling lonely. stay true to yourself.