• Amber Ray's ex, IB Kabba said, "I don't think everyone is surprised that Amber Ray has moved on, if I knew the kind of person she was from the start, I would not have been involved with her. "
Amber Ray's ex-boyfriend Sierra Leonian basketballs star has opened up about his brief relationship with the socialite.
IB Kabba detailed his journey of moving on after a whirlwind romance with Amber Ray that ended before it started.
Asked if he started dating Amber Ray when she was still in a relationship with Jimal Marlow a.k.a Jamal Roho Safi, Kabba told SPM Buzz, "I don't want to talk about her ex."
He added, "I was dating her several months ago. I did not know if she was dating that guy, I cannot say anything about that."
On break up, Kabba explained what happened after a video of him and Amber Ray in an altercation at a club went viral.
"I feel like I went there for you and then all over sudden you don't want to leave, I took her phone, I ended up giving her back the phone, I know what I did was wrong but I wanted to fix things."
Kabba added, "I sent the video to my friends, as proof that I never hit Amber Ray. I would never hit a woman."
Asked why they broke up, Kabba said, "It is normal relationship stuff that happens. A relationship works both ways and both of you have to work on it. If you are doing something that is not right, then, you are like, 'I want to be in control of their life'..."
He continued, "She got everything twisted, why would I want to control her life? She used to use my phone and block people on Instagram and I have never gotten into her phone. What I was trying to build and what she was trying to build was different. It did not work out."
He noted, "One thing I would like to state is that I would never beat a woman."
Kabba said he is now moving on and is not surprised that Amber Ray has also moved on.
"I don't think everyone is surprised that Amber Ray has moved on, if I knew the kind of person she was from the start, I would not have been involved with her. I don't regret what we had, but it seems that she has moved on many times before."
He explained, "People told me a few things about her and told me to search online for her stories but I was not that kind of person to do that, but if I did, I would have been more careful. She was always telling me not to listen to what I heard about her or read about her. But that is life, it is normal."
Would he date another Kenyan girl after his experience with Amber Ray? Kabba said, "Just because someone wronged me, does not mean all Kenyan ladies are bad."