Vivian and hubby under pressure to get kids together

17 February 2022

• Sam has a son from a previous relationship while Vivian has a daughter.

Music manager and motivational speaker says he and his wife Vivianne have been get pressure to get a kid of their own.

Speaking exclusively to Mpasho, Sam said people should stop assuming that adding kids to a family doesn't automatically mean there will be unity.

"I came with a child from a previous relationship so did she. Everyone keeps asking us to get a child of our own. There is pressure from our family, friends and society as a whole.

People tend to think that when you bring another child he/she will bring unity to the relationship."

Sam added,

"The truth of the matter is that the union of a relationship depends on whether the couple wants to be together or not. A child cannot be the reason a couple is together, it only helps strengthen a union."

Speaking about blended families during a past interview, Sam shared,

"It’s about the relationship with your partner. When you’re coming together, you were not in love with the kids, you were in love with your partner.

Ukimpenda unabeba kila kitu amekuja nayo. Ni kama Ngombe ukikula unakaula mpaka mkia. You have to make sure the relationship between your wife and yourself is intact." Said Sam.

Have you ever been given pressure to get a child?