Beloved John Apewajoye’s death in 2020 left Matete vowing to remain single. At the time of his death, she was in her first trimester.
"Tears just rolled down my face. I don’t know where I got the courage to record it. 😢One day I will tell her about it."
This had been weighing heavily on her mind over whether her daughter could comprehend the matter.
"When she can understand stuff. But now am worried. She watches cartoons and sees a family is mum, dad, sister, and brother."
In another update on September 2022 through her YouTube channel, Matete revealed that she wanted to be the first one to tell her daughter about her dad's death.
Ruth then expressed fears that daughter Toluwa would approach her with those difficult questions.
"What if she asks me now where daddy is? Can she understand? What will I tell her?😢She can’t let go of the picture since she saw it. 🥰ðŸ˜Meanwhile, this Yoruba man was so hot. Chaaiii!! 🥰💛"
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