In a May 2020 podcast with Double X Agenda, Victoria opened up about her journey as a single mom saying that it had happened when she was 18 years old, adding that it was rough back then as she was considered a disappointment to so many.
Her father is a pastor and a religious leader. "Truth is, you are never going to be ready. In terms of thinking what I had to give up, a lot of times the first thing that jumps to someone’s mind could be a thing or a lifestyle, my social life," she said.
"For me, because I got pregnant young, I fell into the stereotypical definition of a young single mum. For me, what I had to let go of what was that tag of a typical single mum. And let go of it not only from society but for me.
I made a conscious decision early on that I will not be that and the choice I would make to who I am now basically determined that.”
She said that she wasn’t going to let being a young and single mother define her, her daughter, Neema and her future. She wanted to grow out of that title. She said that decision has made her who she is and helped her heal.
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