A woman's biggest asset is image and self-respect. This is according to media personality Mwanaisha Chidzuga who chimed in with what she thinks a woman should bring to the table.
"The first thing everyone notices about her woman is how she carries herself." said the wife to Danson Mungatana.
Telling panelists on NTV Sasa Thursday, May 11, Mwanaisha added that it is straightforward.
"Asset kubwa mwanamke yeyote anafaa kua nayo ni kujiheshimu. Heshima yako ikiwa mbele hata wengine wakija kukudunisha, hawatapata nafasi"
"Heshima ni vipi? Heshima ni unajihusisha na kipi na nani. na kwenda wapi, mavazi yako ni yapi. Image is everything. Maana unaweza kuwa umejibeba vizuri, una hela zako lakini nguo vyako.... sasa mtu anashangaa, huyu ni wa koinange au ni wa wapi?"
"So kitu cha kwanza tunafaa watu watakujudge nacho ni jinsi ulivyo jibeba. Ukijibeba kiheshima, utapata mwanaume ambaye atakuheshimu. Coz you have already set the standards. Lakini ukijidunisha utapta amwanaume ambaye anakudunisha."
In addition to the image, Chidzuga also advised women that they must have their own money.
"Mwanamke you must have your own money. Hata kama ni shilingi. Hata kama ni kuuza sukuma, akukute na chako. Heshima kinaanza hapo,".
She said always begging for money from a man will make him despise you
"Ukipewa utadharauliwa. Mwishowe nawewe kila kitu nakupa mimi tu? Waleta nini? Utaulizwa unaleta nini?
"If a man meets you with money and respect, he will rise to your standards. lazima hata yeye apambane na hali yake ndio aingie katika circle yako" she assured women.
"Ngara, pendeza, acha asikuone kesho aseme wanirigia nini? wacha akupate umejiweka vizuri,"
"Sis wanawake tunaenda kwa meza mara nyngi tukitaka mtu atubebe."
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