Risper Faith- I never let my nanny cook my husband's meals

Piece by: Maureen Waruinge

14 April 2023

• She faults women for smoking, drinking and exposing secrets
• She gives examples of what a pius woman should be like

Socialite Risper Faith has been married for 6 years and gained wisdom about what is ailing marriages today.

Sharing her pointers on her youtube channel Rispers World, the socialite argued that many mistakes are being made by women.

"Siku hizi there are so many things happening. Hata mimi my marriage is not perfect but you will never see me going to social media to expose my secrets," she cited herself

For instance, her biggest deal breaker is exposing your man's secrets like if he pees in bed.

"Say for instance your partner snores in bed, maybe they pee in bed, or maybe your partner's mouth smells, things like that.

Those are your marriage secrets you are not supposed to expose them, why are you exposing them? she demands."

Further adding

"My mum told me when you have a problem in your marriage call me and talk to me or go to church and talk to your God.

But don't tell people even your siblings. Imagine if bwanako anakojoa kwa kitanda uende umekutana na mabeshte zako then you tell them.

Guess what the next time they see him they label him kikojozi, ati ndio ule kikojozi amecome."

"Then one day Kamau will come to realize that you expose him to your best friends that he pees.

If he pees in bed don't expose it, that's your marriage secret, hizo ni vitu kupelekea dakatari awapatie dawa, ama mnunue diapers or whatever you need to solve" She advised

Another factor making marriage fail according to Risper is telling about your financial challenges.

"Siri zenyu mzike huko kwa nyumba, usizike kwa kaburi but don't go tell your besties your secrets of your marriage, do you hear me?

They will use it against you"

She pointed out it's made worse because of social media where friends expose your secrets

"Na siku hizi kila mtu unajua social media, mtu ata andika online Kamau anakojoanga kitanda so Kamau will be a laughing stock, do you want the father of your child to be a laughing stock? No! "

Risper also faulted women for not being submissive, forgetting their roles as homemakers.

She explained that she ensures she does all these things for her husband Brian, even if she is a woman making her own money.

She also says women have become hard-headed as career women, leaving homes to be run by domestic workers.

"I don't let auntie cook meals for my husband, that's called being submissive."

Risper also says women have become drunkards, smoking shisha too much. She says this does not earn a mans respect.

"Sisi wanawake siku hizi tunakunywa kama wanaume. Sisi ni guzzler.

Ndio huyu ako huko kwa club akipuliza shisha ukiuliza waiter ongeza makaa inachoka ongeza makaa umeona mamako akikunywa hivo?" she blasts married women.