Edday Nderitu, wife to Mugithi singer Samidoh Muchoki says she feels humiliated and disrespected in her marriage.
Nderitu says she has had ups and downs in her 15-year marriage but the last three years have been full of pain following the singer's relationship with nominated senator Karen Nyamu.
"It has been exactly 15 years of marriage full of ups and down, it was humble beginning where little was enough for us, and for the last 3 years it has been nothing but pain, I have remained faithful to you regardless of disrespect, humiliation and being trolled on social media, you’ve made me look dumb and took my silence for granted," she wrote on social media
Nderitu then recalled how she has helped her husband prosper in the music industry, "I have helped you nature your talent and supported you through it all."
Adding "but one thing I have said to you and I am saying here again I will not raise my kids in a polygamy family, especially with a woman who is older than me by more than 10yrs ,has no morals and zero respect to my family’kiura Kia ngaba’ as you put it,I have asked God every day to give me strength to pray for you but today I have nothing to tell God about you, you have drag and put me and my kids in an ocean of pain may you remember this day.#nothingbutprayers #eddaynderitu."
Kenyans have reacted to Edday's message to Nyamu and Samidoh on social media;
Joymurugaru: Hakuna mahali unaenda mum wakuenda hasemangi. Pole lakini .may you find peace
RuthaliaMichale: Aki wanawake tuwambieane ukweli, we all have to accept this fact. There's no man with one woman period, it's either you accept or leave it. Men are polygamous in nature. You will comeout here and miss your husband. Many will be encouraging with so many advices and sorry notes but it is what it is but again your decision is solemnly yours.
Jtonkei: If he wants to be with the other woman and you're not ok with it you should probably consider making a decision that's best for you. The kids will always grow up and eventually they will have their own lives.
LutomiaRasona: Any woman who was telling this beautiful woman to fight for a dead marriage failed her. I am praying for you to fund the strength to finally say no and to choose yourself
Kerly.Karol: That’s why I don’t think this concept works eti muanze chini hadi you be successfully….like literally she has been with this guy throughout all his drama and now still he has embarrassed her… This world no balance
CarolinaCarlz: Am sorry 😔 may you find your peace of mind
SueZey: 😢😢😢😢the pain ,the humiliation ,betrayal,the trolls ,mental and emotional torture,that's what you get after remaining faithful ,sometimes peace of mind and respect is better than being associated with big names,hugs mama,if Amira did u can ,,walk away
Kwin_lyn: Amen! 🙏🏽 Step back and guard your heart and kids. ❤️ I feel your pain deeply and I’m praying for your strength. When situations arise that you can’t handle or carry, hand it over to God.
Lilshish: This is what God wants, tufike mwisho na tuchoke, that is exactly where His power begins,just hold on to Jesus and you will see what He is yet to do my sister.
Edelloatieno: Nobody should ever blame you for not trying. I feel your pain😢
Maureenw_Chege: 😢😢😢😢😢the pain of constantly dealing with disloyalty, disrespect after standing with him since the struggling days must be unbearable,hugs, nothing is impossible before the eyes of God, PRAYERS will be answered,be patient, God will guide you in the next step.❤️❤️
Susushaniz: Mimi my kids comes first bcoz this men will always disappoint u .....it might take time to heal but mama oga ,piga luku na urudi soko ,hii life akuna kubembeleza doreka
Myamburae-terr: Sending love and hugs mama,may you find grace at this difficult time.it is well🤗
Millicentimbura: A cheating man will always be a cheating man no matter how much you try he can never change
Kiptuii: Polygamy is an African thing but we were brainwashed by western culture. The earlier you accept the lesser the chest pains you will have
Annatscay10: Hugs dear, you have been in my prayers and my thoughts for a long time, I was soo broken yesterday. May the good Lord be with you during this trying times of your life, may He make this burden less for you and your children.
Kahbekomeg: When a woman gets to this point, she has tried until she can't take shit any more. One thing I assure you is that God will hold your hand. All the best
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