Life coach and psychologist Benjamin Zulu has given guidance to those who are seeking to get married.
He stated that if you want to end up in a successful marriage it is important to preserve yourself lest you find yourself struggling to find "the one"
"You cannot be giving yourself to someone for free then hoping another person will come along and pay full price for the same thing, committing himself exclusively to you, paying the price culturally and socially," he said.
He goes on to advise that men are not foolish, especially those who are looking for a lifelong commitment.
If you are looking to earn the respect you cannot cut corners and anticipate having a stable marriage. There is always a price to be paid.
The life coach's advice is not only limited to chastity but rather character and maturity.
He does not see any reason why someone else would agree to pay a premium price for someone who has exposed themselves for empty promises.
"If you once lived carelessly, there must be at least a track record of a changed life since when you turned your life around," the trainer explained.
He stated that this did not only imply to women but men too. The men who are building themselves and taking care of themselves for marriage, not those who are not, men who are capable of faithfulness, men of character.
When a man who has prepared himself is ready for a long life commitment he will also want a woman who was preparing herself for the same.
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