Today pretty actress Brenda Wairimu unleashed some advice for ladies ouchea navigating the dating minefield.

The mother of one cautioned ladies that they should stop falling for the men who give them butterflies. "You can't fall for the person who gives you butterflies..."

She said that this was a sign that something was wrong and that ladies should be aware of this sensation "...that's your bodies way of telling you somethings wrong, you're nervous, you're scared..do they like me...do they like me...do they like me...you become addicted to their affection, their approval because you want that feeling in your chest again."

She finished of by telling ladies to only fall for the man who makes actually has their protection and safety in mind.

"Fall in love with the person who makes you feel safe, who makes you feel calm, that's the person you love," she finished of.

Her message comes a week after she trended for all the wrong reasons. She had tweeted about being cheated on by an ex in a deleted tweet she wrote,

“Eating Debonairs alone in an AirBnB and I remembered the time I found out I was being cheated on because we ordered Pizza and Debonairs sent it over to her house instead and she called to tell us…Please don’t let me date ever again."

Many assumed that it had been Juliani her baby daddy and ex who had been the one cheating, but the rapper quickly came out to distance himself.

He did so after adding some fuel to the fire with his own tweet, "When telling our stories hakuna mtu ujipresent kama villain." 

But he quickly did some moon-walking with another tweet saying that he would never fight the mother of his daughter, Amor.

"Nime notice wase wana try ku connect my tweet na hio ya B! Mtangoja sana kuona niki fight mother mtoi wangu kwa hizi app," he wrote.

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