Dating is fun but it can also be messy depending on the kind of rapport you create with the person you are out on a date with.

We have had promising dates that never bore fruits.

A man/woman who looked like they would make a good partner but they never called back.

Might you have asked the wrong questions? Here are questions never to ask on a first date.

1. How many men/women have you slept with

Asking such a question will make the other person feel like you are being judgmental.

2. Are you a virgin

What does virginity have to do with the date? It's not like you are my gynecologist, so spare me such questions.

3. How much do you earn

It's OK to ask your date where they work, but it's not OK asking about how much they earn.

Such a question might male one feel like you are just after their money even when they are not.

4. When was the last time you had sex

Some people are very truthful and the answer they give you might just end up hurting you.

Instead of doing an investigation on your date's sexual history how about getting to know them.

5. Bill imekuja pesa ngapi?

Unless you want to chip in,never ask your date how much they paid for the bill.

Just enjoy what they had to offer ad let them be,after all pesa ni yake.