Let's get real. Let's talk some truth. Rather, I will talk, you listen. Today I want to talk about the difference between a sponsor and a boyfriend/partner and why some socialites look happier when they finally land a boyfriend vs when they have a sponsor.

From the get-go, the relations between you and your sponsor are skewed in his favour. And rightfully so. Only the naive and hypocrites will convince themselves that these relations are more than business transactions.

That means you are going to have to accustom yourself to the fact that you have no say. You think not?

Then listen to the words of this immensely popular Zambian track. He that pays the piper calls the tune. And while you will get to enjoy the most of what life has to offer, it will be bland because it will not be with someone you truly want to be with.

Thank back to when Vanessa Chettle was dating or was it married to Robert Foulser, she was never short of drama!

And when their fights weren't spilling out into the public domain, there were other lasses rumoured to be trying to cosy up to the sponsor and vice versa:

Continue to the next page to find out about the rumoured sponsor she replaced this ancient ruin with.

When things did not work in this setting, she was rumoured to have moved on to a man who worked for a telecommunications company and introduced a service that revolutionized communication in Kenya back at the turn of the millenium.

Problem is, this lad is married with children and would never allow her to so much as take a picture with him. Yes, he would sponsor her rather lavish lifestyle and even allowed her to pose with his escro:

And the rumours were coming in as echoes from those closest to her who also eventually let us know when she and this new sponsor fell out. A fallout that saw her go underground, only surfacing to periodically post cryptic messages about having been betrayed by those closest to her.

while all this was going on in her life and the only rational explanation for all this is that she was drowning in too much negativity. From having to fend lasses off from her sponsor to getting into arguments with said sponsor. <CLICK THE HIGHLIGHTED LINK TO SEE PHOTOS OF THE FIGHT I AM REFERRING TO>

But something changed after she got dumped by her sponsor. She seems to be happier and has even gone into the studio to give us a rather interesting song.