They say that it’s better to learn from someone who's seemingly failed in something so that you don’t do end up doing the same thing. Well guys, here I am with personal snippets about making important financial decisions. The kind that could make a lady swoon over you especially when you're dating.

Let’s dive right in.

Over the years, I always thought that the best way to impress a lady was treat her like a queen from the first time you meet her. I also thought that it’s how a man can meet a lady’s expectations.

How wrong I was.

I've discovered it's non-linear. There’s no proven right way to do it. However, there are principles that involve instincts and money. You probably have a hunch but bottom line: men need to be unconventional.

Make her feel that your approach is different. I've three ways to help you do it differently and I think they'll be helpful:

Think like a music video director

This is among the best things you can put into practice. Imagine yourself creating an epic video that will garner millions of views on YouTube ...takes preparation, right?

The same applies in this context.

Don't be concentrating too much on what she expects you to be. Instead, focus on what you want to make her feel. You're there to make her happy, enjoy and flow. A lady wants a man who will make her happy and you'll have to be deliberate about it gentlemen.

Tell stories that build her life

Let’s get into the practical and tangible stuff. The modern woman can't stand a man who's a gossip. These men have nothing valuable to offer and they don't talk about things that really matter.

Make your conversations interesting. See if you can add some inspiration. A great topic would be money. Here's how you can do it (hint: a great woman will always be interested in money and investments).

You could talk about creative ways of making money and investing what is earned.

A great conversation starter could be the latest craze in town that everyone's talking about - the , which makes banking so convenient. You could banter on how it’ll be the perfect companion for sending money, saving for projects, paying for utilities and services… the best thing being that you get rewards while using the app.

Have some interesting chat on how to join a rewarding investment vehicle in loop. It could be in the industries she should explore, from fashion to tech. The possibilities are endless and if she's a money-minded woman who wants to grow, trust me, she'll feel you and the conversation will be great.

You might also want to know that there's the Loop Invest function and this one stands out. If you're a clever guy with your phases, this will sweep her off her feet.

The Invest widget enables you to put away some money in the 'investing' option. You get to set the period of time for which you want your money to work for you. Watch your money as it fights it out in the markets, bringing the best returns. You can also liquidate the funds you've invested before the target maturity.

Conversation starter? We think so too.

Warning to men: Practice what you preach. don't be someone who doesn't invest yet you talk about how to invest money. You won't be authentic. You probably might want to be a user of the app for starters and get yourself right on the money.

Life Is Never That serious

Avoid too much serious talk. Life is all about experiences. Talk about fun things to do together. This is another thing that ladies are looking for in men. Being too serious is a no-no.

Men like to talk about cars they drive and things they own. Avoid it. Live the moment. Tell her about what you guys can do together to have fun while you are young. Hard work with no play makes life dull, right?

There you have it. Go try out these things and you’ll NEVER have to struggle in your dates again!

About CBA Loop

is a new and edgy money management tool targeted at individual consumers and entrepreneurs. It is a full banking service delivered through a mobile and web application that allows you to be in complete control of your finances.

The service is about delivering experiences through all customer touchpoints, both electronically and physically. It allows for financial freedom to perform payments, set up savings goals and investments, access loans, pay bills many other services. It’s a money manager that helps you analyse your spending patterns, budget and plan your finances. It rewards.

Loop provides a delightful user experience through a user interface that is fun and interesting. It gives you access to payment, credit and investment solutions without paper or promise.

The Loop Store further enriches this experience by providing a space that is aesthetically pleasing as well as functional.

UNBANK YOURSELF, START LIVING WITH LOOP

How to join the Loop

1. Download the Loop App on either Google play or Appstore for IOS. You may also choose to register on the
2. Complete your application and order for your Loop card
3. Collect your Loop card from any of our swanky Loop Stores
4. Load value into your App through either

   1. MPESA paybill 714777
   2. Transfer from another Loop Account
   3. Transfer from a CBA Account
   4. Wire transfer from other Banks (EFT or RTGS)
   5. Cash deposit at any CBA branch

Here's to banking so unconventional, it actually makes sense.