Dating married men seems to be a trend nowadays. Young women are breaking marriages left, right and centre.

Well, a side chic/mpango wa kando has confessed that she's been in a relationship for four years with a married man. This woman says she has been bankrolling this married man and he's refused to marry her even as a second wife.

The two are so much in love with each other and she's confused on whether to dump him or not.

Here's what she wrote

"Please help me post this I'm in pain. I have been dating this married man for 4 years now he was the one that disvirgined me, my body count is one. The problem is he would not allow me to see someone else, I'm dating this man not because of his money because he doesn't have much. Sometimes I give him money too when I have.

I want to leave him but I don't know how, he's always telling me that he loves me but he cannot leave his wife for me that God will provide a good man for me, but Whenever I make up my mind to leave him he will start begging me to stay. I love him so much but I don't want to break his home. He's my best friend, my everything! I really need a man I can call my own. Please, I need advice on how to leave him and start my own life."

This woman's post ignited mixed reactions and here is what people had to say about her situation

Toboraay: If you can gather money... Relocate to somewhere far and start a new life... Meet a single guy and start a normal relationship

Susan: this is a bondage,you need to pray yourself out of it, 4years is enough wasted years...clearly nothing can come out it

Streetfela: You're a very fat fool

Sotunde Maria: Once you accept to date a married man you've become the second option...it is bad to date a married man, find yours and stop breaking peoples home... Remember KARMA is a b*tch,

Adesewaa: Wait you are dating a broke married man that has made it clear to you that he's not leaving his wife for you. Oh lawd!! 😂😂. Like wasting your time is not enough, he's also taking your money😂 using your money to take care of his wife.

Jaynipez: You won’t get a man of your own if you keep holding on to someone else’s man. Let him go and let yours come.

Funmiloa: So 4years of your life just wasted? Not just your body but your money?😂😂😂😂I don't understand!! You give a cheating man your money? 😂😂😂I fainted 😂😂

Orygal: You're giving a married man your money? What a wawu!! And I thought I'd seen it all on here

Milly: How can you be loving a married man and giving him money?

Kingpeeju: He said he cannot leave his wife for u, he has made it clear, see he is just wasting your time. Move on with your life.

Simistouch: I am tired of this shit, you know he has a wife, and you didn't want his money

Royalhotieness: You give a married man money ??? Just when I tthought I had seen it all

Kiikii: Other people date married men for money and you are giving him money?. Aunty open a charity home

Itsssommy: Sweetheart you can't break his home, he already told you that..He is just being selfish. Wise up girl..stop giving him money biko