Have you ever considered that you might unknowingly be pushing your partner to cheat?
Yes, you read that right.
Some people are professional cheats but some people cheat because of circumstances.
According to motivational speaker and pastor Sam West, here is how you might be pushing your bae into another man/woman's arms.
Distance
Where possible a married couple should stay together.
This is because everyone has sexual needs that need to be fulfilled.
One of you might end up satisfying their needs and not with their partners.
Emotional neglect
Some people assume that just because they are present physically they are present emotionally.
One needs someone to speak to, emotional support is very important for a woman.
Financial challenges
Finances are spiritual, they are God-given.
People should pursue God more to attract wealth in their lives.
Unhealed Trauma
Some people go through a phase of trauma and withhold from their partners.
Some people are angry at people who hurt them but project them on their partners because they have not healed.
Sex deprivation
If you deny your partner (married couples), you encourage your partner to go seek it elsewhere.
Do not have sex just because it is a responsibility.
Spiritual deficit
Couples should learn to seek God together because God helps align a couple's mindset.
God helps to crush the flesh and elevates the spirit.
Wrong company
There are people you or your partner hang around with that provide opportunities for cheating.
Hang out with people who have the same character as you and your partner after all bad company ruins good morals.
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