22 January 2024

Maina asked why men take back gifts they had given their women when they were dating them

Classic 105 presenter Maina Kageni has criticized the practice of repossessing gifts, considering it a low blow.

During the morning conversation, Maina questioned why some men take back gifts they had given to their partners when the relationship sours.

"Some men are repossessing gifts when things don't go as expected with the significant other," remarked Maina, adding, "Gentlemen, how do you stoop so low to go and collect a gift you gave her when you were in love?"

Mwalimu Kingangi offered his advice, saying, "Men, go for your things. I will even go for the shoes. If you don't love me, don't love my stuff."

Reactions from listeners included varied opinions on the matter:

Sammy Mburu expressed that he wouldn't tolerate seeing another man in a car he bought, and he would retrieve it early in the morning.
Shasam suggested taking back possessions but leaving the ex-partner with clothes to avoid negative talk.
Lillian Kidiali humorously imagined Bahati reclaiming gifts given to Diana Marua, questioning where he would take them.
Cornelius Muriithi believed men should do what pleases them, and if taking back a gift brings emotional relief, they should go ahead.
Ayogo Isblack raised the question of whether gifts include items like flowers from Valentine's Day or are limited to costly possessions like cars and houses.
Nyakundi humorously questioned the practicality of repossessing old underwear and socks.
Mayieka Morara expressed the intention to go after everything, leaving nothing behind, asserting that once the relationship is over, it's final.
Its Mungai humorously suggested that women should have possessions to repossess from men and questioned how a woman can prove she loved him.
Morin JB acknowledged the emotional difficulty in repossessing gifts and noted the pain it causes.
Kendi Kip highlighted the complexity of reclaiming gifts like a BMW, emphasizing the personal and financial investment made by the giver.
Dylar argued that if the government can repossess land given to squatters, individuals can change their minds about gifts, stating that acceptance is key.
GK Pope expressed the determination to retrieve even a spoon, emphasizing that everything given during the relationship should be returned.

Sir Albert humorously declared his intention to reclaim even a spoon, emphasizing that items provided during the relationship should be taken back when it ends.