Have you ever dated someone and felt the relationship was headed for marriage only to end up being a girlfriend for years?
Motivational speaker Sam West has shared some insights into why that man is delaying in asking you to marry him.
You give him everything that a married man gets
He will not see the need to officiate things if you are already living with him, you are being intimate with him. You have kids with him.
Some things are exclusive to marriage. If a man continues to get this while dating, he won't officiate.
He sees you as a girlfriend and not a wife
Some men see you as a trophy wife.
It may be how you dress, how you party, or how much time you spend on social media.
He loves showing you around but he would never marry you.
His mum does not like you
If your boyfriend's mum does not like you chances are he will not marry you.
Most men listen to their mothers as if their lives depended on them.
You fight a lot
You keep arguing.
Men do not like to be nagged, they love being at 'peace'. if a man feels he will end up in a chaotic marriage he won't ask the important question.
The man is not sure if you will submit
Men love women who submit, if a man is not sure whether you will submit, he takes a step back.
You have different visions
If a man feels you are not on the same page, he might delay committing.
He is not ready to commit
Some men feel like getting married limits their chances of interacting with other women.
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