• Frida and Paula Kajala are rumored to both have dated Rayvanny.
• Frida then went on to date Harmonize.
Tanzanian socialite Firdah Kajala has apologized to her daughter Paula after it emerged they had dated the same man.
The mother-daughter duo is alleged to both have dated singer Harmonize.
Kajala and Harmonize’s relationship lasted for only two months in 2021 before Kajala dumped him on grounds that he was also seducing her daughter Paula Kajala.
Through their reality show Behind The Glam, The mother of one broke down saying she did not think of the repercussions of her actions.
Fridah wakes up Paula saying she wants them to talk.
"I am sorry," the embarrassed mum says.
A confused Paulah questions why her mum is apologizing.
"I feel like I failed you as a mum, you look up to me for everything.
We have a very good bond but I made a decision that you kept telling me not to, I am sorry.
It hurts me because there are things I would have thought about.
I feel bad but there is I can do." Fridah apologized.
Speaking to a therapist, Fridah says her daughter would often cry when the allegations came out.
This is because of the negative perception people had of her.
"There is a day she told me she was bothered about how people view her.
She was scared that the negative publicity would hinder her for the rest of her life.
There are things she would say that made me feel she was hurting."
Paula assured her mother that there was no bad blood between them adding that those are things from the past.
Harmonize expressed displeasure in the act of Rayvanny starting an affair with Paula who was then still a school-going girl.
According to Konde Boy, the WCB signee was out to ruin Paula’s life at the expense of his blossoming music career.
He added that Vanny Boy opted to date Paula out of jealousy because Harmonize was at the time dating her mother Frida Kajala.
On Valentine’s Day (2022), Rayvanny raised eyebrows after sharing videos of getting cozy with Paula Kajala, an act that angered her mother, to the extend of asking the government to intervene.