Red flags people ignored and regret to-date

10 December 2021

•"The bomb came when he gave birth to twins with my maid who came from the same village as I."- Dunato Munyao

Kenyan women have shared some of the red flags they ignored and the regrets that have come from ignoring such.

Most say they suspected their partners were cheating but they ignored them. Sharing their experiences with Massawe Japanni they narrated

*Donato Munyao narrated her ordeal.

"When he slapped me in my 7th month of pregnancy just because I interrupted his plans to meet his side chic one Sunday evening.

Come to think of it, I was even raising his three other kids from his first marriage.

Then the bomb came when he gave birth to twins with my maid who came from the same village as I. I have never gone social on this but I had rather let it out of my chest."

*Catherine Jimmy added.

"Mine was through dreams, as we all know, God speaks to us through dreams, or through our instincts.

I could see him in my dream kissing another lady, or holding hands with another lady, but I ignored all those signs because I was blinded by his fake love.

But the last time I had heartbroken, that was my last time to put any man in my heart, now I put them in my lungs,such that when he starts to misbehave, I breathe them out, and life goes on.

Nancy Charles: He told me one day I will bring your co_wife and ask you to hug her my stupidity made me laugh so loud.

I assumed he was joking, kumbe he wasn't, I was only 19yrs and so naive now I have hugged two co_wives already.

Reine Dzidzi Reeny: Every female he cheated on with was his cousin. Even my cousins were his kasinde kasinde omg love doesn't exist at all!

Gentrics KH: He used to lie, I thought he would change, but he never changed until I gave birth to a disabled child na Ivyo ndio aliruka.

In the end, it's his mother who encouraged him to throw me out saying in their family they don't give birth to disabled kids.

He refused to take care of the child completely, They said my son would bring poverty into the family.

Kayla Kay: He had a baby mama akasema waliachana.5 years later he still asks her for nudes & she sends them gladly. They were talking then and he convinced me that it was only to do with the baby.

I just found out that baby mama anamngoja bado amuoe and she has no idea I exist, their son is 8 yrs old.