'He deflowered me, cheated on me and later committed suicide after I left him,' Kenyan woman shares sad story

Piece by: Caren Nyota
Lifestyle

Mama Rachael's story has gone viral. Everyone is talking about it and many especially women have applauded her for not entertaining a cheating man.

Well, several women seem to have been in Mama Rachael's situation and they are sharing their experiences with cheating husbands online.

Well, a story of a Kenyan woman explaining how her cheating husband deflowered, miserable marriage life and how he later committed suicide is trending and below is what she shared on social media:

"I have read this Mama Rachael's story that is doing rounds and I said I will narrate my story. What Mama Rachael has done shouldn't surprise many, most fed up wives have been doing that only that their men die in silence and quickly marry their mistresses to cover up their shame," she wrote.

She continued:

"12 years ago I got married while still a virgin. I did the "right protocol" from courtship, ruracio, premarital counselling and lastly church wedding. In my mind I knew since I was married the "right way" my marriage had to work swiftly, I mean: no sexual soul ties to rebuke, no repentance of previous sexual escapades I waited me but girl I was wrong. Within the first year of our marriage we got our firstborn twins, it was hectic, but I had to be the good wife I was taught to be {so sad}."  

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"I employed a house help but I did the majority of the work lest I give my husband a reason to love the house help. When our kids were 3 years I started noticing some extramarital symptoms, I tried to follow up but I used to be silenced by this question 'nini umekosa kwa nyumba' ooooh wow so I was just a trophy to be won and kept in the house, our sexual life started going down, I applied all the 'Christian advice' I was given but sadly anger started piling up in my life, so much malice and jealousy.

One day it was raining I requested him to drop me at our workplace but he told me he has to rush somewhere urgently. I walked in the rain but guess what? in traffic, I saw him with another lady. I called him he never picked, I texted him I've seen him, he replied 'so what?' I replied go well, my husband. And while sitting in that matatu seat watching them acting like a couple I emotionally called off the marriage. I went told our HR to give me a 1 week leave I need to sort an urgent matter. I went talked to my parents and siblings and told them to support me financially and emotionally because I want to leave that house very successful. I enrolled back to school, I applied for every internal vacancy position posted and finally I landed one but it was outside the country. Tough decision, I asked my lecturer how I will manage she showed me how I will be doing private studies with her and the other two online though then they will book me in for exams, it was tough I failed once but persisted. My kids' passports, my nanny's passport were prepared all these in silence, 3 days to our departure he was fired.

I was now confused how will i exit? on the second final day he left as usual to his mistresses, I called my brother immediately he left work and came and checked us in a hotel, I never switched of my phone, the man came the next day found we are not in, he never bothered to ask, he never cared. We left the country that evening. 3 months later he reached me via a pseudo account in FB and I told him everything and blocked him. Last year December when I came for the usual vacation with my kids, I was informed he hanged himself after his mistress moved too and changed her number. Ladies and gentlemen, Mama Rachael has siblings, its only that we are still in the closet. Those people who reside in Kiamumbi know this story."