Sometimes we bite off more than we can chew. And today, before we get into the story, I Uncle Chim Tuna, shall give you some advice.

Do not rush. Into anything.Peer pressure is a thing but you should never succumb to it. Fools rush in where angels fear to tread. Marriage is one of the institutions you should never rush into. But once you're in it, you're in it to win it.

And once you're married, you should keep what happens between you and your partner private. Secrets keep the demons outside. Privacy locks the demons in. Do not keep biting issues private, but be selective about whom you open up to. Do not let devils in on your secrets.

That said, I cannot help but feel some type of way for , who had the misfortune of getting in-laws who are content to lay his secrets bare in such a manner. I wouldn't be too pleased if my in-laws kept fanning the flames under the guise of "protecting their sister". Nonsense!

This is what 's brother has said, that is fanning the flames: