South African socialite and dancer, Zodwa Wabantu got tounges wagging after proposing to her boyfriend, Ntobeko on Sunday.

Zodwa, who's known for her signature dance style whilst holding a bottle of beer, shared a video of herself going down on one knee at a popular joint on Durban, asking Ntobeko to marry her.

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She accompanied the video with a message, which read:

We as Women we give our Men Money to Marry us. Hard working Women hide that they Marry themselves by giving their Boyfriends money to go to their families to pay Lobola. Some Women get Desperate to have that Ring on their Fingers🤣 But I don't mind showing reality cause everything that has to do with Zodwa Wabantu is real. Mine is Real, I will Marry him.

Talking during an interview, Zodwa Wabantu said she took the initiative because time wasn't on her side and she was afraid he could' run away'

I love him, he has been with me through it all. I'm old and checking my time to marry him before I run out of time or he leaves me.

Ntobeko, on the other hand, said he was blown away, saying;

This is not a public stunt. It's real and I can't wait for our marriage journey. I love her because she's truthful and fights for what she wants. I'm head over heels with my queen.

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The socialite is said to have coughed Sh 28k for the ring.

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Many have criticized the mother of one for proposing to her man, claiming it's one of the things a woman should never do.

Well, below are afew more things a woman should never do for a man;

Pay rent if you're staying together

Never help him pay rent if he's unable to. You'd rather buy food in the house. Do not let him feel comfortable that in case he fails to pay rent, you will come through.

Give him money

Never give a man money no matter what. Let him deal with his financial problems. Wanaume ni kuvumilia.

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Contribute to dowry

Let him work hard to get that money to pay for your dowry. If he's unable to raise it, then let him talk to his family and friends to chip in. But why would you marry a man who can't even raise money for your dowry?

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Play the role of a wife to a man who's not your husband

From cleaning his clothes to doing his house chores, never do this for a man who hasn't put a ring on it. Some men will take you for granted and later on marry someone else. Even if you go for a sleepover at his place don't clean the dishes. Eat, sleep, have sex and repeat until its time for you to leave.