For a long time, the rule of thumb has been that you do not have to dress up in a trashy way to be sexy. But my generation seems not to have heard that rule, so nowadays when lasses want to dress up in a sexy manner, they pick the skimpiest outfit and tops with the deepest plunging necklines.

Perhaps it's because of the role models we have around; the Vera Sidika's and the Huddah Monroe's but in all honesty, you cannot continue to blame your role model or lack thereof once you hit 25. Your choice is entirely on you.

That said, there is one lass we were discussing at the office earlier today, who always dresses her figure appropriately, and is honestly always dressed to the 9s and looks 10 times sexier than your regular trollop.

She is proof that a woman can respect her body and still be sexy. Hell, she is proof that motherhood isn't the death knell of sexiness. She is Grace Msalame. Check out her photos below: