Women fighting over a husband

It’s just two months into 2018 and everyone seems to have become a relationship expert on social media. From schooling netizens on how to avoid being stressed because of men to others giving advice on the types of spouses to date, soon everyone with have a  PhD in relationship matters.

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Well, a Nigerian man, who goes by the name Adewale Aladejana on Facebook is the latest to give advice on husband snatchers.

Adewale Aladejana and his wife

According to this married man, husband snatchers are smart women. They are not the Marys, Janes and Ivys, who talk much but the silent ones. Church choir members could be a good example.

‘Whenever they say a woman is a husband snatcher I always try to see what the woman is like. You would expect a trashy woman; the type that chews gum loudly and rolls it on her hand but what I have discovered is that these other women are very well behaved and respectful, they make the man feel superhuman, that is a feeling every man cannot do without.

If a man has to choose between a beautiful woman who makes him feel like nothing and a ugly woman who makes him feel like king, he will choose the ugly woman!

How a man feels around you is important. Please don’t get me wrong I am not saying you should not say the obvious and disagree with him when you should but you need to make that man feel special. Many women have plates and cutleries  they reserve for special guests. Who should be more special than your husband?

Some women are so ungrateful that even when the husband goes out of his way to do exceptional things like buying surprise gifts they still don’t appreciate it, things like that can kill a man. If your husband buys you a gift be grateful and let it show! He did it to make you happy, don’t rob him of the pleasure he derives from seeing you excited!

Ladies, you need to know this; if a man sleeps in heaven and worships with the angels then he comes to his house and you make him feel like nothing, its just a matter of time before he leaves you. If a man is loved and celebrated by many people but in his house he is treated like trash, he will soon leave! Respect and honor is like fresh air to a man, he will NOT live without it.

The bible says about the Proverbs 31 woman in verse 26 “the law of kindness is on her lips”‘ he wrote in part.

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He further advised men to love women who praise  them and not the bedroom bullies who only give them a pat on the back after performing magic in bed.


“Any woman who honours your husband more than you can seduce him! I know some men are useless o but the sexiest weapon in a woman’s arsenal is respect, honor and the ability to speak right words.

Before I got married, there was one girl that used to tell me ‘ you cannot afford the kind of wedding I want’  but my wife used to call me “my king’. Who do you think I married?

Women may you embrace and crave wisdom as you love human hair in Jesus name.”

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