'Women pay me 450,000 for every date night experience,' confesses male escort

Piece by: Caren Nyota
Lifestyle

Ryan James was working a steady job in finance when he decided to delve into the world of male escorting.

Inspired by a previous girlfriend who was already in the industry, Mr James quit his corporate role and now charges between $400-$6,000 for his professional, intimate services.

The 31-year-old from Sydney spoke on  in preparation for the release of his memoir about what it was like breaking the news to his family and the requests he gets from women.

'The youngest client I've had was 20,' Mr James explained. 'It's rarer for a client to be in their 20s but still happens regularly.'

Mr James admitted that generally women don't have specific fantasies they want played out by an escort.

'Clients say to me that with a lot of sexual encounters they have the guy makes it about him, he comes and then it's over. They want the focus to be on them. Many do like reciprocating, but they want their pleasure to be in focus,' the escort explained.

He said that there's definitely still a stigma around women seeing escorts, and that some women are very secretive about it.

'The way I describe seeing an escort is any girl could go into a bar and ask a guy to go back to hers and get a back massage. A lot of guys would say yes,' he said.

'But he's not a massage therapist. She might enjoy it, but he's not a professional. If you want a certain sexual experience, it's much harder to find exactly what you want, but an escort can provide that.'

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