From the archives

In this day and age, getting ladies who advise other ladies relationship advise that entails self-improvement is a tall order. It is as rare as chicken's teeth.

And when I talk about self-improvement I am talking positive and real self-improvement. How a lady eats, sleeps, how she thinks, these are things that are normally glossed over.

That is not all. The other major area that self-improvement/relationship teachers fail women is in how they are supposed to treat a man.

The common mantra that is taught is that the woman deserves the best man out there. But one thing that they don't advise them on is what are they bringing to the table apart from their guavas?

They say themselves. What the hell is that? If the man was to give out such an answer would it suffice for you as a woman? Hell naw!

Check out this American ladies viewpoint which I totally agree with:

https://www.facebook.com/biGtOTO/posts/10156972899395101?__tn__=C-R

Her advice is both succinct and excellent. Many women want a made-man(finances on point, mental strength on point, God-fearing, a great physique) but what are they offering in return.

I am working on a follow-up story with video feedback from Kenyan ladies on what they are supposed to bring to a relationship. Stay tuned.