It’s no longer a secret that young men are being kept by older women older for sensual reasons, sad as it may sound it’s the situation on the ground.

Truth be told most relationships thrive only when there is money.

Keeping up with appearances/Peer pressure

People nowadays are keener on pleasing others than on maintaining their principles.

One will cheat just because his friends are cheating and do not want to be left behind.

Technology

In recent times technology has greatly improved. The advancement of technology is a good thing but it has also led to high cheating rates.

This is because of the many platforms where one can find love, interact with people of the opposite sex, plan meetings among other things.

Gone are the days where letters were the go-to means of communication, saa hii you just send fare na ‘chakula’ inajileta.

High rates of desperation

There is an increased level of desperation among women, so bad is the situation that some are willing to date married men with the hope they will dump their wives for them.

Sadly, that never happens as only a stupid, man would leave their wives for a side chick.

The good thing is all is not lost as not all relationships experience infidelity. So keep clear communication, trust your partner, and hope that he won’t cheat on you.