Watakutumia Na Wakuwache! Akothee Advises Kenyan Women Against Dating Rich Men

Piece by: Caren Nyota
Lifestyle

Singer Akothee has of late turned into a relationship expert/counsellor.

The mother of five, who is never afraid of calling a spade a spade, has been advising Kenyan women about relationships hoping that one day, the so-called slay queens will learn to work hard and stop depending on sponsors.

She speaks sense but rarely do women take her seriously.

Akothee has advised her fellow women not to be so comfortable dating rich men because they will be used and dumped leaving them with nothing.

"There is no rich man who would ever make a woman rich, they will give you tokens so you keep on going back to them, and the day they dump you! Most of them would like to see you back to your original situation! They will start by kicking you out of their houses if your name didn't appear anywhere on the papers!! Never be too comfortable dating someone who has made in life! be there with your eyes wide open!

Remember they made it without you so you are just but secondary in their lives , it's very difficult to collect yourself if you were dependant on them!if they love you for real, let them put up a business for you, or allow you to work for yourself , other than being a teddy bear in their hotel rooms !but you changing channels in their big living rooms following series ! Ayeeee when hell breaks lose, even the watchman will lock you outside the gate! Your personal Driver won't a dress you as madam again !he will call you by your names "Esther no I can't drop you, my boss will be angry #thinkingofyou

#Usikubalikukaliwa, there is no beautiful woman than a woman who knows her worth ! Drop it like a hot pan if it's not adding value to your life! Some doors are not closed , you only need to push, if he cares let the car and the house be in your names then you can call it OUR CAR OUR HOUSE , before business class trips! you haven't sitted watching TV and see buyers walk in surveying the house , next thing it's on sale you have no say ! Huko ndiko kuchanganyikiwa huanza, kwanza ukiwa na watoto wengi kama Akothee maskini nitaanza wapi?"

The Sweet love hitmaker also advised women to stay at home rather than go out and party till dawn. Akothee also gave wife materials tips on how to make their marriages last long.

"A thousand reasons to stay at home, if you don't have to go out

1. When you stay at home you become creative, innovative, productive, and give warmth to the family, that's the time you get to correct and teach your employees how you want your things done

I don't have to go out of my house if I have nothing to do out there !this habit of loitering around only gives you ideas on where and how to spend money that you don't have, sometimes you end up collecting enemies and bad luck that was not meant for you ! Make your home a small heaven for you and your loved ones ! Not for Instagram & showbiz, please your family before pleasing the public!you will be at peace with yourself."