You are siting there and wondering if you could take back a cheating partner. For Zari Hassan, that is water under a bridge. Gone. Poof. Like magic.

The Ugandan socialite and business woman seems to have forgiven Diamond Platnumz for his indiscretions.

Diamond went live on radio and said he cheated on Zari with his video vixen Hamisa Mobetto and as a result the two have a love child together.

He even vowed to crawl back to South Africa and beg Zari for forgiveness.

On Saturday, he was in South Africa to celebrate Zari's birthday.

Diamond pened a moving ode for his love.

“UZURI NA UREMBO PENGINE NINGETEMBEA NIKAKUTA BAADHI WANAO PIA… LAKINI AKILI, HEKMA, PAMOJA NA ROHO YAKO YA KWENYE SHIDA NA RAHA KWANGU NDIO KITU PEKEE KINACHONIFANYA NIKUPENDE NA KUKUTHAMINI ZAIDI KADRI SIKU ZINAVYOZIDI KWENDA…… WANAPOSEMA KWENYE KILA MAFANIKIO YA MWANAUME KUNA MWANAMKE IMARA NYUMA, HAWAMAANISHI ETI ANAEPIKA NA KUOSHA VYOMBO SANA AMA KUFUA NGUO KILA SIKU… HAPANA! NI MWANAMKE MWENYEKUWA BEGA KWA BEGA NA MPENZIE KWENYE SHIDA NA RAHA… HAPPY BIRTHDAY GENERAL💞”

Sooooo, Diamond has basically pointed out who is the main chic and who is the side dish. Pssst, Hamisa, please take note.

Zari Hassan's son Lil Q also wished the mum a happy birthda, "🎁🎂🎊🎉🎈 it's your day mummy dearest. Happy birthday to the best mother in the whole wide world. You have taught me a lot of things. Surely No one can ever take your place 💕💕❤️😘😍 you are the best thing in my life. I love you mummy. Thank you for all you do for us. You have a heart of Gold 😜😜 May you live to blow 100000000000000000000000 candles 🎂 I love you very very very much 🙏"

Videos have emerged of Zari's impromptu birthday in South Africa. I say impromptu because she was dressed like someone who was just chilling at home and then people came with drinks and food and thus a party happened.

On her birthday, Zari posted a deep message about her "trials" on her social media.

It's usually said 3am is the best time to pray and am usually up to give thanks and praise.... Regardless of the trials one goes through in life, giving thanks and still appreciating what's left is a MUST. And am here today to thank God for my life, my kids, my family, my friends, my work and you my fans. Tonight was about thanking God for another year as many haven't made it this far. Thank you God for my life and happy birthday to me. #Blessed #Grateful'

She added, "Thank you God, is all I can say!👏."

Check out the video, where Diamond attempts to distract Zari but she ignores him.

Chics took to social media to comment about Zari forgiving Diamond...

jevarist: Jamani zari sie tulikua hatuli kwa ajili yenu hata fiesta sijaenda jamni,Leo nimefurahi kuwaona pamoja lakini tunajua diamond kakukosea sana tena sana lakini hembu yaishe iludishe furaha yako ya mombasa japo ni vigumu kuku bali sie tunapenda muwe hivyohivyo na I think diamond hatoludia tena coz mtampa nafasi kinuka chupi mkipendana ile ya mombasa, hata instr atahama kabisaaaaa maana hana jipya kazi kusuka twende kilioni na mashosti wameyaludia hayo mawig yao mpaka basi sijui ajiri ya kufulia omo,,mpendane mpaka sie Tuone wivu basiiiiii...

pee153: This is what we call keeping your circle small...less bullshit... innit miss zee? Enjoy your circle..enjoy every moment of your life 😍😍😍😍😘😘😘

arina_bish: Ok Diamond lied to Zari, whats itching u? Shes moved on. Have u asked them if they are married or not? For your information Diamond has been there for Zari’s children since conception & was present when they were born. Diamond proudly declares publicly his love for Zari. The other hes embarrassed & ashamed people to know he was with her, he insulted, denied even rejected her child in public. Shes now shunned by the the very people who plotted against Zari. U are so hurt desperately want to compare the two becoz u see Zari not bothered, that’s what set her apart from bitter people who never want to move on. Becoz u feel the humiliation it doesnt mean Zari feels the same, she has shown the ability to move on graciously and for that we commend her. Anyone who has been in Zari’s situation normally moves on even Maria Shriver ex-wife of Arnold Schwarzenegger moved on. So u move on too. Has the president and prime minister of Greece told u that Greece is going to vanish off the face of the earth? Greece will be there today, tomorrow even next year, if Diamond and Zari want to go there they will go whenever they want. Must they consult u for all this? Who are u? And you sound as if u are about to announce u have also been impregnated by Diamond! Why don’t u take your medication & sleep now u have spewed bile. It will do u good.

faizoldizzo: You look good but I just don't like it how in a video diamond is forcing himself to look sorry n in love with u...tena mbona umekonda ivo..seems stress mob.

hassani9416: @zarithebosslady can't believe your ass keep going back to someone who disrespect alot of time, you're such foolish fool for letting him play you like a Puppet #fishbrain

munamattaka: Enjoy your day zari, kufanya kosa sikosa, kosa kuripiti kosa, msamehe, muendelee, hakuna alie mkamilifu katika dunia hii, vuta subra

mokogoti: In a world where humanity seem cold and selfish,women like Zari gives us hope and inspirations .YOLO Zari. Enjoy your life to the fullest, allow no room for detrimental. People can talk rubbish trying to knock you down, but let those fall on deaf ears.You beautiful personality with beautiful kids and plus beautiful kids to match with..Focus on your business, family-friendly and your good networks of connections.....

Here are photos from the birthday party in South Africa