Saumu Mbuvi, a mother of a 3-year-old daughter has revealed that her baby daddy Ben Gatu was violent.
The two broke up after dating for nine months, leaving Saumu to raise their daughter alone.
I bought everything on my own and made sure my daughter was comfortable. ‘I don’t advise women to be single. If you break up with her baby daddy, look for a father figure. A dad is a very important person in every child’s life,’ she said in an interview with Massawe Japanni.
She added that,
My lover right now (Lamu senator Anwar Loitiptip) is a very amazing father to my daughter.
Saumu got pregnant for Gatu at 21 years old and she said the relationship wasn’t rosy. She said she rushed to make decisions yet she was warned and never listened.
We started as friends and dated for nine months and we broke up when I was heavily pregnant. He used to beat me and after sharing with pals I went to my dad and told him I couldn’t take it more. I told him ‘I know I have wronged you,’ and he accepted me back as a father.
I was young and naive. I rushed to get married. I got into a relationship after graduating. I wouldn’t advise women to be in a toxic relationship. A relatIONSHIP which will drag you emotionally..don’t allow violence in a relationship.