Diamond Platnumz was dumped waaaaaay before Valentine's day.

In an interview Zari Hassan had with BBC over the weekend, she says, 3 weeks before Valentines she had made up her mind.

"For three to four weeks we were not talking, so when Valentine's Day came, I had digested everything within the three weeks and I knew that relationship was not for me."

What pushed Zari over the cliff were photos of Diamond with his ex, .

"I mean, we were trying to see how we can move from the scandal ya kuwacha amepata mtoto so we can move forward. But unanona vile sijui anakumbatiana huko na ma ex kwenye public. Vitu za kunizalilisha, vitu za kunifanya niwe very disrespected na watoto wangu yet unaona tuu, it is not right."

So, have they talked ever since?

"No, hakuzungumza na mimi. I did not ask him. Niliona ni kama it is very pointless."

She continued, "To be honest, his video with the ex ilitoka and I tried to ask. That was the morning before. Alafu, kila ukiuliza mtu anakua na story mingi, hapo hapo nikadecide kumblock kabisa from my contacts because ukiwa unatrust mtu, umempa maisha yako, lakini wewe anakuchukulia kawaida na anazidi kukuzalilisha, he does things and thinks it is okay with him but he is not thinking about you or the outcome. Hapo ndio nikasema you know what? We are done."

Zari added, "Ukiamua kua na familia, na watoto wako na nishakubali wewe ni musician, sometimes you need to take a step back and see that hivi vitu, when it comes to my family havifai. Lakini wewe unaendelea tuu, like...i can't even explain it."

Asked what Diamond's mum thinks about their breakup, Zari said:

"I respect her as my mother in law and grandmother to my children, so I cannot give a comment when it comes to her. I would rather keep her out of this."