Singer Akothee has for the first time addressed rumours that she and her younger sister Cebbie Koks don’t see eye to eye.
It all started when blogger Obare shared private messages between Cebbie and her ex discussing Akothee’s financial woes.
The screenshots went viral and Cebbie came out to clear the air saying they were in good terms.
Akothee, who has been silent on the matter has shared her two cents on sisterhood.
Treat them the same way you would treat your own mother, there is nothing like sibling rivalry, it’s a cover-up for jealousy, never try to compete with someone who is older than you. They are still your seniors🙏 I wish I had an older sister that could cuddle me and tell me all will be okay, one that would help me sort out my bills when things are thick, one that my children can visit and I feel well, my own kids are good in my mom’s hands 🙏🙏,’ she wrote in part.
But if your sisters does motherly things to you, and you keep hurting her and expect her to always forgive and take you back, as usual, I am sorry, time changes and people grow up once you grow up. please pick up yourself and start taking care of your sister the same way you would take care of your own mother when they are old and when they need you. you can’t just be a taker always, givers also get tired . Give back a hand to those who saw you grow. If your elder sister saw you through education and now you are working, please shop for her if not every month, but at least 2 times a year. surprise her even if she is rich or stable, buy her small things like deras,lesos, clothes (by the way, rich people appreciate gifts, not because they can’t buy, but simply because someone has thought about them).
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The mother of five went ahead to advise her fans to lift each other and siblings to respect one another
If your elder sibling goes broke because of educating all of you, then it’s your time to build them. imagine if she/he became greedy and build herself with all the money she invested in the family to just invest in her/ himself. Some of you might not be where you are today (so please think and be human). There is pain sisters/siblings can bring for you, and they keep treating it as it’s normal.
Remember this is not someone who gave birth to you, they might turn their back forever. it’s human for you to keep allowing people to hurt you and come back in the name of family. I am sorry, you keep hurting yourself. FAMILIES MUST CREATE BOUNDARIES AND IF THEY CAN’T THEN YOU HAVE TO CREATe ONE and LOVE THEM FROM FAR. GIVERS SHOULD BE CAREFUL BECAUSE TAKERS HAVE NO BOUNDARIES NOR SHAME.