Nowadays, one has to be self aware and stop chasing after waterfalls. Yaani, wacha kua ambulance.

Always running when called.

Create some mystery about you and also just get a life.

My husband stalked me on social media to get my attention – Jackie Matubia

Here are ways to ensure your man misses you.

1. Get a life

Go out jogging or get a hobby. mambo ya kunipigia bae all the time to find out if he is breathing or if osmosis took place to keep his house plant alive, uwache. Give  him space to miss you.


2. Be busy

By being busy I mean, do something meaningful sio just lounging on your phone watching WhatsApp statuses and stalking akina Kabi wa Jesus to see if they kissed in the last 5 minutes.

Be busy.

There is more to life than social media. That way when bae texts you won’t respond asap like the idle person you are.

Men love the chase so do not get caught easily. Make him wait as long as needed but not long enough that will make him lose interest.
3. Be mysterious

Don’t post every minute thing about your life. Create some mystery about you. Let him want to know what else you are up to.



4. Be unique and quirky

A good example is being you. Don’t emulate anyone. You fit the bill just fine. However, you can find a scent that will remind him of you.

Or have a special restaurant that you love that is special for the two of you.

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