Signs that show that you are eventually over your toxic ex

Piece by: Caroline Mutembei
Lifestyle

We all know breakups can be injurious to your health and life! Everyone takes his or her own time to forgive, forget and finally move on from a past relationship that went sour.

The phase when you are trying to get over your ex can be painful for many and every day seems to be an emotional struggle.

However, the feeling of liberation cannot be put down into words when you realize that you have eventually (and finally!) made peace with your past.

If you are wondering how to spot the signs that suggest your past no longer influences your present love life, here's some help! Signs that show that you are eventually over your ex.

The texts and calls

You do not feel any need to constantly stay in touch with your ex-partner.

You no longer feel the urge to message or call him just to know what is happening in his life, nor do you check your phone after every two minutes to see if there is any notification related to him.

​Your ex dating someone else and you are OKAY with it

Your ex-love flame is dating someone else and this news has not bothered you at all.

You are completely okay with the fact that he or she has moved on in life and you are pretty convinced your present and future has nothing to do with him.

You are happy with your single status

Being single does not scare you!

You enjoy your own company and you have friends whom you consider your support system.

You do not mind stepping back into the dating game and are hopeful of a rosy future.

Most importantly, you have moved past the stage where you feel tempted to stalk your ex-lover.

The dates and occasions

Were you also one of those partners who used to remember the date of every special occasion including the first time you both met, kissed or hugged?

Well, time heals everything and fades memorizing that show that you are eventually over your exes (which were once close to your heart!) at times.

Now, you do not remember those same dates and nor do you feel like pressurizing your brain to remember them again.