A pastor on social media is making some like me re-think my views on the beauty and the efficacy of marriage. Can there be love in this age-old institution?
Can there? Can a woman love a man like a man loves a woman? Yes. A man will love a woman to a fault and most times end up worse for it.
The Nigerian pastor in question posted a long and heartfelt message to his wife on her birthday. It goes like this:
Wauton Knight wrote that very flowery message to his wife and all I can say is bull-shit. The first line for me is a lie.
What? And I quote:
“A woman who a woman who has not said no to my sexual demands since we got married.”
How is this possible? This is truly a unicorn! If you can believe this then I have a bridge I want to sell you. Just this one line can make me dismiss his claim about his wife being all that!
Another part I have a problem with is the assertion that his woman has never held back her money since they got married. Again, plain garbage. Does this man not understand that a woman’s primary goal is to herself and her children?
Most likely his wife is really good at hiding her faults or his bar for perfection is very low. Or maybe I am just jaded and this “perfect love” does exist.