Online Dating: How To Get A Man's Attention

Piece by: Mercy Gakii
Lifestyle

Online dating is one of the best ways out there for purposefully attracting a great man. Ladies, today I have some great methods you can use on your profile to make him get in touch with you – and be worth your precious time!

On your profile, you can get his attention within these ways:

1. Be specific.

2. Don't Fear to be picky.

3. Be absolutely clear with yourself on what you want.

Let’s get into details...

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On being specific

The temptation to be a crowd-pleaser is real. A lot of ladies try to be broadly appealing to men. It’s a game of numbers, right? The more you go on dates, the better your chances of finding the right one, correct? Wrong. Put your true self out there. You may appear vulnerable but really, it's better to be honest, truthful and direct. Sure, you might have less dates but good thing is they'll be better quality. It is likely you'll be a match to these.

On being picky

Note: This doesn't mean being picky on everything but rather, the values that are most important to you (yes, you guessed it - lifestyle, kids, previously married, high value to loyalty ...you get the drift?). You need to make up your mind on what traits you can be open on. Be realistic though! My friend refused to go out with anyone under 6’…now honestly, if you met the perfect match but he was just 5’10” would you write him off? I don't think so. Stuff like age (to an extent), height, what kind of car he drives, profession, location (again, to an extent) – these are all variables that just you can decide how important they are.

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Put forward what you are looking for in a relationship, in a lighthearted and not-too-serious way. Being honest will attract men who want the same thing. If you’re clear on what you want, its easier to eliminate. Don’t fear to say no if you’re not interested.

Know What You Want

Let's say you’re spiritual or religious but you're afraid to put it out there. What happens later when differences arise over your spiritual or religious views? Ladies, if you’re up front on your profile about where you stand you never know what you'll attract. That doesn’t mean you must find someone with exact similar spiritual views as yourself but finding someone who is spiritual on some level is more likely. This then means you’re probably more compatible long term.

This applies to any scenarios. For example, want kids? Want to only date someone who's never been married? What importance do you give lifestyle and diet? If you know the answers to these and what you'll expect from a partner, you can narrow down all the plenty of fish in the sea.

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This all directly relates to the idea of deliberate attraction. Using the law of attraction, it is possible to attract what you desire into your life. One of the most important steps is being clear on what exactly that is. And in order to know what that is, you really have to know yourself, and be happy with yourself. Interested in the idea of deliberate attraction?

This is where VipiApp comes in. A world of dating where you don't waste time and you don't second guess. You get to discover and chat with people who have mutual interest in you.

The app has over 500 “get to know you” questions on vipi quiz to ask a new match from social to professional to personal questions. This help to eliminate low levels of interest.

The app lists and shows people around you by proximity. This makes it easy to meet new people anywhere! Once you have a match, you are able to chat with him or her and have some stimulating conversation because you're already interested in each other.

Forget the movies. Forget the fantasies. This stuff works! Best of all, it's absolutely FREE

Download VipiApp from the today or check them out on and . Go ahead. Make your dating easy with VipiApp!