The always slaying Akothee who is known for her flamboyant lifestyle decided to share her thoughts with single mothers now that schools are opening for the third term and they have to pay fees for their children, buy uniforms other school needs like books, pens and even writing pads.
Akothee is known for her hit songs such as 'baby daddy', 'yuko moyoni' and 'sweet love' and is always a subject of online trolls thanks to her controversial posts on her social media pages but this time, single mothers opened up to her to share their sorrows and how they have also managed to take care of their children single handedly.
She is a mother of five and is known for being very protective of her children.
"the world is bitter because we raise bitter children in broken relationships , as a mother , you have no choice but to show your children love , they dint send an application for what kind of life they would like to live , they are victims of circumstances." This were her first words in a long post narrating how its not easy for a man to accept another man's responsibility.
Akothee would have been married by a young handsome guy from Holland in 2007 because he was such a loving and caring man but the moment he asked her to take back her children to their father so that he would settle with her, Akothee's love vanished and everything he did was just annoying even after he apologized.
She did not trust him again and so she walked away from the relationship even though he was a perfect husband," its not easy for another man to accept another mans responsibility." She said.
She went further to say how after that she met Wuon Oyoo in 2009 the man he considers the 'winner' when Ojwang, one of her sons was just but two weeks old.
Akothee added that," he fell in love with the oozing milk I was in the middle of lactating but was back at work as a taxi driver magy roja that , he collected my 4 children as his & always reffered them to our children , he always had their birth certificates in his email in case the school wanted something and I was away imagine his name was in none of the above 🙈, this was a lesson for me never to take quick offers as they come , I am a risk taker , my children comes first in my relationship , a child is not a teddy bear that you would move from one couch to the other , forget it and come pick it the next day , I am a proud mother of five, now enjoying the fruits of my luck, patience and Gods miracles . sometimes I felt like God was taking too long to answer me , but trust me I got so many proposals but my children were never in this guys budget , I dumped them with all their dreams of having a model to show arround in europe while my womb would be in Afrika , from day one , I will sing the love of my children in your ears so I get to know you before we make any step , your reactions will tell me if we moving on or lets just not waste time , A man will never take you serious the moment he realises he can replace your children from your heart ,sorry for the babby daddies , karma will land at your doorstep soon., for the single fathers I dont know your pain , I have never been there , may be you share with us so ladies can learn from your experience , , this is the time single parents drink salty water for tea GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH MY LOVE."
Here are reactions from her Facebook fans:
This is touching. As a single mum,I have God and my siblings who help when things are thick. But when schools open like this and am in the supermarket with my three doing shopping for them,I can't hide tears when I see men shopping for their kids sometimes with no mothers in tow and I ask God,why me? Nilikosea wapi?sometimes God takes too long but I hope one day he will answer me.. May thunder strike these men who abandon their children in Jesus' name...
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