It Is Not Easy For A Man To Accept Another Man's Responsibility! Akothee Advises Single Mothers

Piece by: Sarah Otieno
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The always slaying Akothee who is known for her flamboyant lifestyle decided to share her thoughts with single mothers now that schools are opening for the third term and they have to pay fees for their children, buy uniforms other school needs like books, pens and even writing pads.

Akothee is known for her hit songs such as 'baby daddy', 'yuko moyoni' and 'sweet love' and is always a subject of online trolls thanks to her controversial posts on her social media pages but this time, single mothers opened up to her to share their sorrows and how they have also managed to take care of their children single handedly.

She is a mother of five and is known for being very protective of her children.

"the world is bitter because we raise bitter children in broken relationships , as a mother , you have no choice but to show your children love , they dint send an application for what kind of life they would like to live , they are victims of circumstances." This were her first words in a long post narrating how its not easy for a man to accept another man's responsibility.

Akothee would have been married by a young handsome guy from Holland in 2007 because he was such a loving and caring man but the moment he asked her to take back her children to their father so that he would settle with her, Akothee's love vanished and everything he did was just annoying even after he apologized.

She did not trust him again and so she walked away from the relationship even though he was a perfect husband," its not easy for another man to accept another mans responsibility." She said.

She went further to say how after that she met Wuon Oyoo in 2009 the man he considers the 'winner' when Ojwang, one of her sons was just but two weeks old.

Akothee added that," he fell in love with the oozing milk I was in the middle of lactating but was back at work as a taxi driver magy roja that , he collected my 4 children as his & always reffered them to our children , he always had their birth certificates in his email in case the school wanted something and I was away imagine his name was in none of the above 🙈, this was a lesson for me never to take quick offers as they come , I am a risk taker , my children comes first in my relationship , a child is not a teddy bear that you would move from one couch to the other , forget it and come pick it the next day , I am a proud mother of five, now enjoying the fruits of my luck, patience and Gods miracles . sometimes I felt like God was taking too long to answer me , but trust me I got so many proposals but my children were never in this guys budget , I dumped them with all their dreams of having a model to show arround in europe while my womb would be in Afrika , from day one , I will sing the love of my children in your ears so I get to know you before we make any step , your reactions will tell me if we moving on or lets just not waste time , A man will never take you serious the moment he realises he can replace your children from your heart ,sorry for the babby daddies , karma will land at your doorstep soon., for the single fathers I dont know your pain , I have never been there , may be you share with us so ladies can learn from your experience , , this is the time single parents drink salty water for tea GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH MY LOVE."

Here are reactions from her Facebook fans:

This is touching. As a single mum,I have God and my siblings who help when things are thick. But when schools open like this and am in the supermarket with my three doing shopping for them,I can't hide tears when I see men shopping for their kids sometimes with no mothers in tow and I ask God,why me? Nilikosea wapi?sometimes God takes too long but I hope one day he will answer me.. May thunder strike these men who abandon their children in Jesus' name...

Hehehe I am still stuck at " for the single fathers I don't know your pain, I have never been there". By the way single fathers kujeni mtuambie what you guys go through, fungueni roho
Product of a single father my dad sacrificed everything to see me grow.my dad put a fullstop about marryn when he was 28 just to give us good life when we use to ask him dad why don't u marry he was like"If I bring another woman in this compound and mistreats you I will end up commintn murder,to avoid trouble let me play the two roles of a mother and a father"For a man to wake up prepare breakfast,wake u up,make sure u go to schl,take milk to daily,come back wash clothes and clean the house,go to shamba,then come back to prepare lunch and be at sch gate at 12:40 to bring food so that u won't carry cold food to sch and provide sch fee.God please protect my dad for me from any harm
It's not easy being a single mom jst at 28 I'm a single mom of two and nothing pains so much when a baby asks for his/her father's whereabouts....my hubby died while my daughter was only 5months old in my womb....now she's 6years old and still asks about her father....this always sends me Into tears my hubby died in a grisly road accident.
Still wondering school fees itatoka wapi n job iliisha early this month bila notice 😥😥😥 she is so beautiful that I can't give up.... because she believes in me so much. I may not be a perfect mum but am doing the best that I can...by the way orthopaedic surgeons I need your help please...
This is the most inspiring thread I've been on for long long time... God bless you. This is the description of strength, resilience and heroism