A man has written to relationship expert schooling fellow men on the type of women to marry. According to this man, cheating has been there since the old days and attraction is the main cause.

Here's what he wrote:

"Attraction is the main cause of cheating out there, never settle down with someone you are not attracted to because there will always be someone finer, richer and better than your spouse. Who says money is not good? The Bible recognizes that "Money answereth all things" but the love of it is the root of all evil . We all have a checklist when we meet someone. In your heart before saying yes ask yourself 'Am I physically attracted to this fellow?' because that's always the first cause of cheating. 90% of cheating starts with a fatal attraction.

Eve ate the apple in the garden of Eden because it was attractive. So, all women were modelled after eve in like manner.

Secondly, self-control is very key, God has placed in us the ability to say NO! to whatever we don't want. Don't just try to form am the boss, even if I look at her buttocks I won't do more than kissing. To the women honour your husbands, it is very key? That's why sometimes when you pray for a husband who cheats nothing happens. Never pay back cheating with cheating, it never heals you rather it leaves you with a less self-esteem. The bottom line is both parties have a part to play in a relationship. There is no perfect relationship, as far as we are in the flesh there will always be temptations. Jesus himself was even tempted after fasting for 40 days and nights. Know the season, place and time you are more vulnerable and avoid it. If as a man you know you like staring at women with big ass, then don't employ a maid with this qualities, likewise, the women too, if you love TDH keep of from male friends like this because attraction is fatal, I repeat FATAL! in other to avoid stories that touch. Self-control cannot be overemphasized.

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Thirdly, be always ready to own up to your partner, you are not perfect and be ready to say you are sorry. No matter who was wrong, boss you have to man up! Women need tender love and care that's how they are wired. Feeding them with too much of tough love makes them look older than their age. U want the best out of your wife feed her with tender love and watch her become the woman you've always seen in her. Women I repeat again HONOUR YOUR HUSBAND! even in his unfaithfulness reference him. Never stop making him that special meal or talk politely to him even if you catch him naked on your matrimonial bed. Violence is never the solution, same goes to the men too. Love your wives!!!! I repent, love your wives.

She lives of what you sow in her. Sow in her love you reap a happy home, sow in her cheating, she cheats on you better, sow in her bitterness, you reap quarrels and discord in your home.

Finally, never allow a third party into your home. A third party can be anything that you spend more time with rather than your spouse. It's that thing you enjoy doing alone rather than doing it with your spouse. Always work out things within yourselves (you and your wife) rather than spreading your dirty lining for all to see."

Do you agree with this man?