Self-proclaimed president of single mothers Akothee has shared the five most important lessons she has learnt in life, leaving her fans wowed.
The outspoken singer advised siblings to respect each other’s privacy. This comes a few months after her sister allegedly exposed her financial woes to her former lover.
‘Never discuss your family members negatively with your spouse if you know it’s all lies. Especially the ones who are independent, look for something to make your spouse happy and not by talking down your family members who are even doing much better than you, you will look like a jealous person, ungrateful and mean, your spouse will now have an attitude and disrespect your family depending on what and how you handle your family around them. Just be true to yourself, there is No family court
But divorce court iko, it means you are two different people who can disagree to agree.
Never seen a court that will now say. From today henceforth this relationship is dissolved, you are no longer brothers and sisters ( be careful) but that doesn’t give you a right in your sisters/ brothers life RESPECT IS PARAMOUNT,’ she posted.
Below are the other four lessons she shared,
Support those you can and expect nothing in return.
Most people that you walked through life will never come back to say thank you, instead they would like to show you how good they are doing now, without you, and even try to bring you down if they can. They will tell everyone how you mistreated them to death, that God just saw them through believe them
Support family members but from a distance
Just to keep your space and privacy if you keep them in your house and they make a mistake, it becomes a community problem, you become an enemy to even the family members you have never met in life. You can never throw them out In peace before the preachers of some are so disrespectful that they will make your house look like jail for you, and even beat up your wife/children.
Don’t give out money that you need
If friends/relatives ask you to lend them money, don’t expect that money back. You will lose either or , so give the money expecting nothing back, or lose the relationship, if you say No you will lose the relationship and keep your money, if you say yes you will lose both the money and friendship when you ask for it 💪
Wealth comes and goes, you are not wealthy until you touch lives positively