Kenyan socialite Vera Sidika has been keeping a low profile after unceremoniously parting ways with Tanzanian doctor Jimmy Chansa. The two dated for seven months and many were convinced that she was going to settle down with him.
The bootylicious socialite came out to reveal that her relationship with Chansa was toxic.
I WALKED OUT OF MY RELATIONSHIP COZ I’M NOT GONNA STAY IN A TOXIC ONE JUST TO IMPRESS PEOPLE LIKE YOU. YOU CAN THINK WHATEVER YOU LIKE AT THE END OF THE DAY I’M THE ONE WHO’LL FACE THE BULLSHIT SO I WILL ELIMINATE WHAT’S NOT GOOD FOR ME. IF U LIKE SAY WHATEVER, STRANGERS ON THE INTERNET WILL NEVER LET ME TOLERATE BULLSHIT FROM A MAN JUST TO SHOW THE WORLD THAT I’M STILL IN RELATIONSHIP. HELL NAH. I WILL ALWAYS PUT MYSELF FIRST. ON GOD!!!’ she posted on Instagram.
‘I’m not gonna stay in a toxic relationship to impress people!’ Vera Sidika on dumping Tanzanian bae
Well, apart from Jimmy, Vera Sididka has dated other men and they include;
Not so long ago, the bootylicious socialite revealed that she had a divorcee sponsor, who spoilt her with money, love, and gifts.
He would give me money for shopping. To say the truth, I had never seen so much money in my entire life!
He would give me money and it would shock me,’ she said.
Every Friday, for one and half years we dated, I would go to the bank and deposit the money he had given me.
This was her first sponsor when she was still studying at Kenyatta University.
The Nigerian man, who’s based in Dubai dated Vera for quite a while before their nasty break up.
Vera accused the Nigerian man of being violent.
You claim I was cheating yet I LEFT 11 CONDOMS CAME BACK TO 8! wOMAN BEATER,’ SHE WROTE ON HER INSTAGRAM.
You’re a woman beater! Even CCTV camera outside elevators of your flat saw you attack me to extent of cutting my hand handbag then you claim its lies. WTF!
Yommy also, went ahead to pour out his heart claiming that Vera Sidika aborted his child.
DRAMA BEGAN IN MAY WHEN WE HAD AN ARGUMENT AND SHE WENT TO NIGERIA CLAIMING SHE WAS GOING TO ABORT MY BABY THERE. I BEGGED HER NOT TO DO IT, BUT SHE WENT AHEAD. I WAS ANGRY AND I CUT OFF COMMUNICATION WITH HER. I WAS SHOCKED WHEN SHE LATER CLAIMED SHE HAD SUFFERED A MISCARRIAGE AND THAT I BEAT HER UP. I KNOW MY TRUTH AND I HAVE NEVER LAID MY HANDS ON VERA.
She later denied the abortion claims, saying
You claim I aborted yet you personally knew I did Implanon to avoid getting pregnant coz your sperm wasn’t worth my womb. F***boy.
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After breaking up with Yommy, Sidika hooked up with Kenyan singer Otile and their relationship lasted for six months. Many criticised the socialite for stopping too low for love.
Their break up was nasty and aired their dirty linen in public.
WHILE IN DUBAI, I BOUGHT AN EXPENSIVE WATCH AND IT WASN’T REALLY A GOOD TIME FOR HIM TO ASK ME FOR MONEY. IT WAS KINDA AN AWKWARD SITUATION AND HE ASKED FOR THE CASH TWO DAYS AFTER WE GOT BACK TOGETHER.
Vera was shocked how Otile asked for money from her barely a week after they got back together and she said;
I DECIDED TO TELL HIM THAT I DON’T HAVE ANY MONEY SO THAT I COULD SEE HOW HE WOULD REACT. BUT I WAS SURPRISED. HE WENT QUIET ON ME WHEN I TOLD HIM THAT I DIDN’T HAVE THE MONEY.
The singer responded to Sidika, saying she was playing the victim.
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Sidika then hooked up with a tall black American man in Las Vegas.
She even revealed that they were going to have a child.
BAE SAID IT’S ABOUT TIME WE HAD A BABY. HONESTLY, I AGREE… WANNA GROW UP WITH MY CHILD. PLUS I’VE ALWAYS WANTED TO GET PREGNANT BEFORE I HIT 30.
The Luhya bae then showed off another man and it seems they just had a fling.