'My married bae of 11 years has refused to leave his wife for me,' Laments city woman

Piece by: Peninah Njoki
Lifestyle

Dating married men has became a necessary evil for most women and it's heartbreaking to see how damaging some of these relationships end.

Most end up bitterly as the married man never leaves his wife for the side chick despite giving her false promises he will do so.

For most women such relationships are beneficial to them as they get material things or financial help in return.

*Carol has been in such a relationship for more than a decade only to realize she has been duped when it's too late.

Sharing her story with Maina Kageni during the morning show, she said,

'I have been dating a married man for 11 years and I thought he would leave his wife for me. I even called his wife and told her I want to settle down with her husband.'

Some women have also said they would never refuse to date a man just because he is married.

Below are some of the reactions to Carol's predicament.

Faith Isaac: I am the one to remind him he is married ? Let me tell you I am after money nothing else I don't care if you are married or not. Nindanganye nipe pesa enda.

Shiru Jenny: I will entertain him as long as he's making me happy, he came to me who am I to reject him, na don't come here calling me cheap, if me being happy is cheap then I never wanna be expensive.

Frank Tera Babayao: Hao ni wakupitisha muda. I have one outside wedlock and I love her just because of dreadlocks but I can't compare her to mother of my kids madem mtaiishi kucheatiwa tuu.

Nicky Minaj Odem: I am married and I am dating a married man too we are happy we do our staff everyone gets back to their families both men and women wameharibika sasa hii injili jaribu uhubiri ingine.

Ken Kimetto: There is no better way to waste your time as a single lady than to date a married man.

Especially that moment when the wife calls him, and you have to play dead in the background. You have to remain dead silent as they update each other on the family projects.

A side chick is a nobody.... Etc. He is busy, yet your work is just to lie in bed and give him pleasure and fake orgasms whenever he needs it, and all you receive are picked change afterwards.

Adding,

'By the time you realize your time is been wasted, all the eligible bachelors are gone and married.

And your sugar daddy, sugar father, sugar-grandfather will go home and celebrate 25 years, 30 years, 35 years, 40 years anniversary of their marriage depending on the category that carries and used you.

They will post the wedding anniversary on Facebook and you will even foolishly wish them happy togetherness and many more years, while you yourself remains single.'