Are you struggling with submission in your relationship?
Not to get it twisted, being submissive does not mean umekaliwa chapati, it only means you acknowledge your man as the head of the family.
In an interview with Mpasho.Co.ke, Motivational speaker Sam West says lack of submission in a relationship is a recipe for disaster.
"Submission is important in relationships.
The man is the head of the family but that does not mean you boss your woman around.
For submission to work there, the man must be one who listens, who is compassionate, affirming and one who is affectionate
Submission should be done as Christ stipulates.
Any relationship that has two heads is a monster and that means you will 'eat' each other.
Marriages work, and most happily married people have mastered the art of the submission." West advised
In the past gospel artist Mercy Masikas said she feels powerful when submitting to her husband.
Like Sam West, Masika says women should understand that the man is the head and they should be answerable to him as a woman.
"It's easy to submit to a good man like David Muguro. I have learnt that submitting to authority is a great strength. God is a God of order and Yeees I'm answerable and accountable to my hubby.
I am a power but under authority. If the military had no authorities it would be ugly.
I have learnt that many of us don't even understand submission and consider it a weakness. It is not." She advised
The mother of two further added
Submitting to your husband doesn't make you less. It helps your marriage to do it God's way," she wrote on Instagram.
When I got married I was depressed at those manenos. I was like never. Until then I learnt the wisdom of God is better than mine own.
Submission is not oppression..it is Honoring your hubby... it's treating him with respect I have so reaped the benefits of submission in a marriage that I learnt I am extremely powerful when I am submitted."
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