You may think I’m fishing for compliments but here is the truth, experience is the best teacher. Many see it as blessings and even admire having a blessed bosom but allow me to be honest with you, it’s not as easy as it looks.
Of course for some, it’s not that big of a deal. These struggles sometimes make me wish I could afford breast reduction surgery because my oh my is it a hustle.
Here is a list of a few struggles that I sampled out.
Always assumed to be older
Most of the time, many relate a big bosom to an older woman. Not that being an older woman is bad, but as a young lady being assumed to be older because of your chest can really hurt sometimes. Not that people make it obvious but for a person with a big bosom, you can clearly see it in someone’s face.
Easily sexualized
It is common to get sexually suggestive stares from men. You might think they do it unconsciously. When speaking to a man face to face it is very easy for them to pay attention to your burst instead of your face not realizing it is sexual harassment. Still, they are assuming that you are older.
Fashion limitations
Majorly crop tops! Every girl wants to look a certain way in every outfit they desire. Unfortunately for young ladies with a big bosom, apparels like crop tops majorly disappoint and nothing much can be done about it rather than avoid them. Every young lady wants to rock a crop top once in awhile.
A bra can be exhausting
The bosom being lifted by the bra can come along with some added weight as compared to when one is not putting on one.
Unfortunately for us going out without a bra is just forbidden as much as some ladies these days have mastered confidence and can be daring enough to walk in public with one. Hehe!, guilty as charged.
Of course, not much change can be done but just embrace oneself and work on one's confidence and be comfortable with our body.
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