If your bae is exhibiting these signs then he/she is having an emotional affair.
Daydreaming ovyo ovyo
You will notice that most of the time, bae seems to be lost in thought. Like they are daydreaming most times it is with the person they have an emotional affair with.
With time they start comparing you to their secret love interest. This will lead to the destruction of the relationship.
When bae fights unfair and are mean just know that they are not making an effort to be kind during an argument. That is because they don't care about your feelings.
This is not to say that you should not speak your mind, far from it. You should but use tact. So when bae is being savage, it is time to safeguard yourself and leave.
Excuses, excuses, excuses
Does bae always has an excuse for missing your calls, why you don't have to hang out on certain weekends. Excuses about hanging out with his boys/girls?
This is code for never ever ask me where I am or what I'm doing. See the scarlet red flag guys. He/she is grooming you to accept that he/she won't always be there for you.
His gang covers up for them
If your bae's gang is made up of cheaters, guess what boo? He/she shares the same values of the gang.
You are a sum total of the people you hang out with. So if it walks like a duck, quacks like one, honey, it definitely is one.
Hovering and messaging their exes
They keep tabs on their exes. Follow them on all social media and comment on their posts.
Bae may be a good person but that hovering around the exes is a red flag. Especially if they don't have children together.
Do yourself a favour and run in the opposite direction because this one is going to cheat on you.